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Bisexual friend is getting desperate, please help!?
I am so sorry this is going to be long. I’d just like things to be clear.
My fiance and I are friends with a girl who we met through his work. From early on in the friendship, it became obvious that she had the hots for BOTH of us,(I’m a woman) and was semi-joking for a threesome.
She has a straight boyfriend, who became her fiance on Christmas Day!
My fiance and I are a strong, loving and monogamous couple. My bisexuality is are not important in this relationship, any more than his straightness. We can’t imagine really being with anyone else!
Anyhow…
We played along in a totally joking manner, and as a couple, realised at the same time that we should STOP the jokes, when she tried to "sleep-over" in our bed. …In a house we share with my parents, brother and Gran!
We managed to turn that down without sounding horrified, and then backed off the jokes. So did she, but it took her longer because she is lovely, but has NO tact or common sense.
One one occasion, I forced myself (against my embarrassment) to say "You are far too precious a friend to mess around with like that"
All this was about a year ago.
Sometime last year, my fiance and she got very drunk when I wasn’t there, and she flashed a bit of boob and tried to kiss him. I trust my fiance wholly, and know that when he said he thought about sex it really was just because a woman had just flashed him…I believed him. He did NOT kiss her, and he told her it was a bad idea. She thinks they kissed, because she "caught" him on the lips, when he went for her cheek to say goodnight.
(I know I sound like a chump for believing this, but I know my fiance so well that I know how he would have been to polite/stunned/awkward NOT to give her a friendly goodbye! Her fiance believes mine too, and thinks it’s funny)
Whatever minor crush he had on her until then (Hey, I found her hot too!), ended that night.
She told her fiance, he found it amusing and forgave her. I was worried he’d hate MY fiance, but he forgave him too.
We (The two men and myself), decided never to speak of it again, share a beer, and marvel at how tactless the girl is!
She’s rasied the non-issue three times since then. She drops it in to the conversation and it’s becoming apparent we are the second couple this has happend to….and there’s a third one AND a single Mum!
All we can guess is that she reads sexuality into every friendship.
Yesterday, with my fiance in the room, she asked me what my sexuality was. I was taken aback (She does know!), and told me, for the umpteenth time about her sexually open and promiscuous past.
Then proposed a trip to a local gay-night. I told her this was not, and never has been my scene, but the new club sounds like a friendly one anyway, So I did agree. I’m sure I’ll have fun if I get drunk enough!
Now I’m worried she’ll try to hit on ME on my own.
Do you know when you have a friend who you got stuck with because they are not, inherantly a bad person?
You wish you hadn’t got that close, and allowed the friendly intimacy?
She’s increasingly more annoying each time we meet her. It’s not just the flirting, the T.M.I conversations about bowl irrigation (!), and the forgetfullness. It’s just that I know now that we are more mature than her. We are older too.
It may be that I’m missing my best friend who lives abroad.
I just don’t know what to do. I can’t say "No" to meeting up with her, or visits to the house. (Or hospital when she needed us). I don’t want to hurt her.
Please help. I’d like some advice but can’t deal with being direct. I’m too English, and she’s too (half) American!
I don’t think she should sleep with other women now she’s engaged do you?
That is still cheating in my book. If her blokie is ok that’s up to him, but I’m not going to help her!
find new friends
BeBe | Jan 28, 2010
hang out with new people
Tiny Dan | Jan 28, 2010
you should end up having a conversation with her about how much you love your fiance.
and afterwards she should get the message.
whether she is immature or not, all girls get the message about love. we all know when guys really care about somebody. and after that try to get it in that you would rather have her as a friend then have a relationship and have the friendship ruined. all that matters is that you don’t hurt her feelings. if that happens, you might end your friendship and then you’ll never know what good times you might have had with her…but not alone.
Poppui | Jan 28, 2010
get with her lesbians are awessome. and act like a bad kisser so she wont wanna kiss u again
Trainwreck420 | Jan 28, 2010
Sounds like this really isn’t your thing. So, how about finding her someone? Like, a new girl.
EDIT - like you said it’s cheating in YOUR book, her book may be different.
Li | Jan 28, 2010
If you had a friend who was a man who was trying this hard to get into your pants, you wouldn’t stay friends with him. You’re cutting this girl a lot of slack because she’s a woman.
I think you nailed it that she reads sex into every interaction she has with people. With you she probably feels the door is at least partially open as you’ve admitted to bisexuality, even if you are currently monogamous with your boyfriend.
I think you need to be direct with her. I imagine she thinks of your polite refusals as part of the chase. If you prefer you can go to her fiancee and tell him you’re not comfortable with her behavior, but I think she’d deal with it better coming from you.
Tim S | Feb 02, 2010